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The Golden Triangle Part 3: Love

The last corner of the triangle is love.

1. Family
The people you spend much of your time with. Requires a high level of commitment and provide a steady flow of support and pleasure.

2. Friends
The people you spend some of your time with. Requires a low level of commitment and provices occasional bursts of support and pleasure.

3. Self
The person you spend all your time with.

I'll leave it at that.

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